DOLPHIN RESCUE

We've all heard over the years various reports of true events that dolphins have saved the life of either the one or more peers of ours, or of whales are about to fail, or of puppies, or other endangered creatures imminent.

Even if the stories about dolphins that saved people's lives dates back to ancient times, biologists have not yet scientific evidence that altruistic behavior.

It is possible that these marine mammals are just curious when you come near a man in danger. Or maybe they really want to help him.

But the story told by Maddalena Bearzi, president of Ocean Conservation Society, seems to contradict this hypothesis.

Maddalena wrote in his book "Dolphin Confidential: Confessions of a Field Biologist" about an incident that was witnessed at a time when studying the behavior of dolphins, along with her team.

Suddenly, Maddalena says, while eating, one of the dolphins stopped and went in another direction. Soon, others followed him.

Amazed by this behavior, researchers followed them out of the boat and saw that the dolphins were stopped at a distance of 5 km, forming a circle around a black dot.

When they arrived at the scene they saw a young girl on the brink of drowning. Researchers were able to save in the last minute and took her to the hospital where the girl recovered.

Later, they learned that it had been a suicide attempt, the young having on her a note stating reasons.

If it had not been observed for dolphins and if these mammals had not come near her, thus alerting researchers girl would have drowned for sure. But it was observed dolphins from a distance of five kilometers, or they were alerted to turn the other creatures of the sea by signals that we humans can not perceive. The fact is that something caused them to suddenly cut all meals and go in the same direction, reaching finally to where the girl was in danger.

The incident occurred in waters off Los Angeles.

Researchers wonders such as dolphins reacted in their absence if he failed to save the girl alone.

There are other incidents in which witnesses spoke of altruism dolphins. Recently, the 12 divers who were lost in the Red Sea for 13 hours were helped by these mammals, which have kept the sharks away.

There are also stories about how dolphins have helped swimmers to reach the shore or guided whales were in danger of running aground.

Recently, however, an incident occurred which could be considered a reciprocal above the set.

A tourist enjoys what appeared to be a calm day at the beach in Arraial do Cabo in Brazil when he saw something quite unusual in the water. He immediately took his room and saw a large group of dolphins, which number around 30 were heading straight for shore! 

No one can say with certainty why dolphins have done what they did, but I am sure we are all so glad that it ended well.

Images shown are rare. Most times, when dolphins or whales go ashore, there is no one to rescue them.

Experts have not yet agreed on the cause of this strange behavior.

The most credible theory is that marine mammals are confused by the sounds produced by submarines and military ships when they use echolocation.

As these dolphins and soul destroyed people need a friend or a loving heart to understand, to help them and give them a new direction, a new hope, and desperation to leave their souls.

Environmental activists have argued for years that sonar - detection systems and submarine communication - used by ships on beaches causes wreck cetaceans because it interferes with their orientation and communication system. A recent international study confirmed that this technology is responsible for such a major incident - a failure of more than 100 dolphins in Madagascar.

In 2008, more than 100 specimens of dolphins Electra (Peponocephala electra) were stranded on a beach in Madagascar, and a recent study says that disorientation produced by high-frequency sounds used for mapping the seabed would have been the origin of this event.

Sounds of high-frequency sonar used by military vessels, transport, and research to communicate effectively prevents animals between them and affect their orientation can make cetaceans swim toward areas that otherwise would not adventure.

Volunteers from the Wildlife Conservation Society (WCS) and International Fund for Animal Welfare (IFAW) rescued some of the animals but for many others, it was too late to be saved.

It is the only way that man-made underwater noise affects marine cetaceans: Another study, conducted by Cascadia Research Collective soon by states that sonar can lead to death warships blue whales. These sonars emit sounds with frequencies between 1 and 10 kHz, which induce behavioral changes in whales. Among other things, changing feeding behavior of some whale species, which makes them "miss" very nutritious prey, the whales became malnourished and weakened and may even die of starvation, which decimates populations.

The findings are worrisome because sonar systems are very widely used in the navy and research vessels, especially for precisely mapping the undersea relief.

Nature protection organizations hope that these scientific evidence of man-made underwater noise impacts on cetaceans leading to review how this technology is used to reduce the risk posed to marine cetaceans.

Peruvian Ecologists have found no less than 615 dolphin carcasses along a portion of 144 kilometers from the beach. At the first estimate, experts consider as the cause of death of cetaceans powerful acoustic tests carried out by oil companies in the coastal waters of Peru.

"If we managed to count 615 corpses only dolphins on the beach, we are sure that a much larger number of dolphins have died in the ocean, and their bodies have not got to the shore. It is possible that the number of cetaceans killed to have reached some thousand copies, "says Hardy Jones, BlueVoice.org environmentalist group leader after the estimated situation on the beach, along with a researcher from the group ORCA Peru.

BlueVoice.org organization claims that "Initial tests prove the acoustic impact caused by sonic blasts used in the underwater exploration of oil deposits."

An expert from the ORCA Peru, veterinarian Carlos Yaipen Llanos, said that although no evidence has absolutely undeniable, he beliefs led to the propagation of acoustic tests of a "sonic explosions", a shock wave that caused internal bleeding dolphins, loss of balance and dizziness.

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MY BOY AND MY TIME

I became a mother at 23 and I was very clear what to do: I had to be the big sister, my child's playmates. What could be so complicated? Half of my existence had been a child, I knew very well how it works. There was no way to be overcome by all that was happening to me. But ...

I wake up early, sometimes very early every day. I kiss the child, Victor, sleep and get away from him. I make coffee and retire in "my room", which is the place of work and dining room, and playground and all, but that's not important, the important thing is that they only have the privilege to see the sunrise window sun every morning.

Nothing but nothing in this world compares to the east. This is my moment! Write or read while the sun rises, I drink coffee in a silence and savor seconds, and I make for wonderful day schedule below.

Since Victor came into the world, time and space were severely diminished. In the early years, I stayed just stunned. Could not find the place anywhere, I could not rest (although sleeping more), I could not coordinate, and anything I can not do it properly. Everything was upside down, and it bothered me terribly.

I lived it until the night I had no sleep. Then I got up at 4 and I started the day. When he woke up the baby I was all done things food, cleaning, shower, hair arranged. This morning I discovered. Now almost two years.

Since then, every day I wake up in the dark and do ballet house. I learned every piece of creaky floors and a bypass. I know, without light, where everything I need. Challenge each morning is to make no noise. I do all kinds of tricks in the kitchen. Lighting the stove with the match, because the button is not so quiet. Put two towels on the table before you sit down for a coffee cup. I use a plastic spoon to not reproduce the sound that destroyed my childhood mornings: spoon in the cup - my father had an obsession - coffee must be stirred well, that is energetic and noisy. And after I'm done with the kitchen, doing ballet with a coffee mug in hand and retire to the light aquarium near a window.

And this is my time. It's the day when no one calls me, nobody asks me anything, no one calls me, nothing is urgent. I feel, somehow, outside. I feel like a prisoner who has the opportunity to leave the prison gate and out daily, but never leave. It always returns back after feeling a little freedom.

So are you. I found when I secretly enjoy the freedom of being single and not blow it again. If you miss, are troubled all day ... In the morning, I would like to connect to power and I would load the rest of the day. And even so it is!

In the mornings, we spend alone time for all. The more I find that I do not have time to miss. Dorm bed when Victor was born. Asleep on me (skin to skin in four years, yes). I like to keep it up and I think a little fear when they no longer want that (because I feel it coming), but in the morning I get tired ribs and lungs. And then run away from him and are so as to make me miss. He wakes up alone and I cry whispered "Mommy" and I ran to him in the next second. I hold her, I rub his hand, kiss him on the forehead and chin and neck, rub her feet and back to stop not only when he wakes up for good. And so begins our day ... And this is good!

Excuse me, can you expect me to write about a new adventure with Victor, but that's when I start writing in the morning ... It's my time!

To be loved!

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THE AWAKENING

This story can be seen as a confession. Or as another confession. Days on end, weeks and months, even years linked to the 1997 - 2007: I ate food in excess, far beyond my needs.

1. The food we ingest nutritional quality was low, with many empty calories and the majority. I was a gourmet, a glutton, a greedy, "a pig".

2. I consumed alcohol and often in excess. I was an alcoholic in that classic hardcore youth.

3. Do not practice sport constantly, did not move often, not even I used to walk 30 minutes daily. The times were often not even climb stairs to 1st-floor block. Use the lift. I was an ordinary sedentary.

4. I worked from 9 to 10 and about 14 to 16 hours minimum per day. I worked and Saturdays and many Sundays. I worked in Christian holidays. Yes, I did for years in a row. In most of his own initiative and without recognizing it. I was a fucking workaholic.

5. Do not read much, just junk sites, online news, and I forget that night television hoax, almost daily. I was an asshole.

6. buy all the crap earth. I bought clothes, objects, apartments, cars change them within a year, fashionable

furnishings, furniture, electronics, etc ... I have been a dozen consumerist - ordinary.

7. I would go to the city often. Spend lots of restaurants, terraces, clubs and bars. I meet anyone I suggested, rarely sitting at home on the weekend. Dade course almost any "ieşeli". I was a gregarious petty.

8. I was a rushed, a rushed, an impatient, a staunch proponent of "now! here! "immediately, instantly, immediately! All in!

In fact 8 + 1. There would be an excess work done in those years, but maybe I better stop here now. And I write separately only about that soon.

My Transformation from gourmet greedy, alcoholic classically ordinary sedentary, workaholic fucking, asshole, consumerist and a gregarious paltry dozen since the minimalist today, although still working, required time, many years, and, especially, more patience. Perhaps patience was miracle ingredient and the miracle that occurred! What made the difference at a time.

Food, alcohol, physical inactivity, the workalcoholism, consumerism, and gregariousness creates some terrible addictions. Let's give them is an act of courage and strength of character. Not easy at all. And then triggers a series of fierce fighting, heavy fantastically frightening. You really need help, support and above all patience.

Just one example: the dozens of pounds of fat accumulated in over 10 years of indolence not disappear like magic. No, you can not wipe with a sponge magic instantly, no you can not tell success as cats: GO! Do not go so easy pounds. It takes patience and a lot of work. 

Examples may continue. But the essence was said. What I want to convey is that the degradation of a man is not done overnight. And neither by luck instantly. It is the result of adding constant long-term healthy habits and wrong attitudes.

Also, the reverse way, the positive, there is clapping their hands. You have a lot of work, dedication and, most importantly, patience.

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UNLUCKY GUY

There was once a man really unhappy. All it went bad. Misfortune to brace against. Hut roof is collapsing, his garden was a jungle, had no friends, no wife. After becoming proud of his misfortune. He said everyone wanted to hear: "I am the most miserable man in the world!"

He began to wonder why God had so unlucky. Decided to find him and ask him.

Once he walked a year and a day in the woods, he came upon a clearing with a cave. Enter the cave; and when his eyes adjusted to the darkness, sees a wolf in a corner. It was in a sorry state. He was so weak that he could count his ribs and fur was dirty and torn. Surprising, but could not speak. Wolf asked:

- Who are you and where are you going?

The man replied:

- I am the most unfortunate man in the world and seek God, to ask why I'm so unlucky.

- When you meet him, you can ask him why they are so poorly?

- Come with me and ask yourself, 'said the man.

- I doubt I'd be capable of that. I feel too weak to travel. Ask for me.

The man nodded, and resumed his way.

May went another year and a day, then stopped to rest in the woods. A leaf fell on his crown, and he looked up. He saw a tree embittered, small and frail. Tree said:

- Who are you and where are you going?

The man replied:

- I am the most unfortunate man in the world and seek God, to ask why I'm so unlucky.

- When you meet him you can ask him why they are so why can not make me grow strong branches and a trunk thicker?

- Come with me and ask him yourself. replied the man.

- I can talk, but I can not move, see I'm trapped in the roots. Ask for me.

The man nodded, and resumed his way.

Another year and another day passed. Reached in a beautiful valley, green and there he came upon a small white house. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen sitting under a cherry tree near the door. She asked:

- Who are you and where are you going?

The man replied: "I am the most unfortunate man in the world and seek God, to ask why I'm so unlucky." She invites him in, we prepare a delicious meal, we hear the story and he said, "When will you see, you can ask him why they are single? "He was in agreement.

After a year and a day reached the end of the world, you find God.

- Who are you and where are you going ?, asked God.

The man replied:

- I am the most unfortunate man in the world and come to ask you why I'm so unlucky.

God listened patiently while the man still reeling long story that goes wrong in his life. When finished, God said:

- You're just unlucky, you're also wrong.

It was not the answer that the man was waiting for him, so asked for explanations.

- I created what I could. I offered endless possibilities and opportunities, I surrounded by beauty, the people that I know of places to explore and the discoveries that you make. You have to come back and stop to say you're the unlucky man in the world. Go to look for better luck where they are. Move!

Man silenced by these words turned away thoughtfully. God recalled.

- Do you have questions to ask me by others, is not it?

God made man gave him answers questions and then told him to leave.

The man came to the house with a beautiful woman in the green valley. She calls again, eager to find answers. The man told him:

- God told me that not only unfortunate but also stupid.

Then he said that God had said that it was only because he lived in an isolated place. He said:

- Tell them to open their eyes and ask her to marry the first man who will pass and they will live happily life.

She replied:

- You're the first person who has passed. Would take me in marriage?

The man said:

- No. I have to go because God told me to go find my fortune where it is.

And left leaving the beautiful woman.

When he reached the tree destroyed after informing him that God said it and ill not only unfortunate, he said:

- God gave me the answer for you. You can not grow healthy, because when you were a Berries, thieves treasure buried here under you. Lada block you and prevent you grow roots. If you find someone to dig up treasure and then you can increase the normal.

Tree said:

- Is a shovel, there by that tree. It is there since I can remember. You can pick and pull that trunk!

The man replied:

- No. I have to go because God told me to go find my fortune where it is found.

And left.

Finally, he reached the cave wolf.

- You ask? said the wolf.

- Yes. It seems that not only unfortunate but, in addition, are stupid.

The wolf raised his head and said:

- And to me what he said?

The man replied:

- The only reason is that you are hungry you are weak. He said the first man must eat badly that you'll encounter.

... And so the wolf ate him.

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JUSTICE For The Elderly

That happened a few years ago, in one of the country's courts.

Characters: wife, husband, and mother. Spectators: the public from the courtroom, judges, and some lawyers. Reason process: an old woman and one, maybe ill; his mother claims her only son, a man in full strength, healthy and sturdy, help her to live decent, her last years. Just ask the unwritten laws of humanity. According to them, she addressed the court to do justice. That is, to force the son, an engineer with a well paid job, so maintain the mother.

As expected, the court awarded in favor of the applicant, as they say in the language of lawyers.

So far, nothing special. A civil lawsuit, like so many others.

Accustomed to such cases, judges were hurrying to move to another folder, considering the case solved. But our story starts now ...

Upon hearing the sentence, "too friendly" daughter- in-law of old woman was caught simply by a fit of anger; seemed a blatant injustice, her husband to bring home, payday, less than the few hundred dollars, the tribunal decided to give her son month, to his old mother, for expenses maintenance. And then, in front of the room, she began to crying, to insults mother-in-law, blaming her for pettiness.

Those present, stunned by this output, it looked amazing and justified contempt.

Eventually, of course, the court had to call to order and to warn that if peace will not be enforced the law. Of those present were heading now towards the man. Sentenced by most for his attitude reprehensible, pitied by others because the wife had as the classic shoe, the man was silent and just stared into the ground.

If, at that time, the three had left the room, things would have stopped there, leaving only the present meeting with a bitter taste of an event that did not honor human nature. No one could have known what happened but, old soul ?! Until then there had never been to court. He looked at the faces of the room, looked at the judges, clearly all the same reproach to her son. And covered it a legitimate and painful sense of remorse, shame, shame on him. Something in her soul rebelled and refused to leave it at that. He would like foreign men to regard her son as a jerk, a jerk. He asked so to speak, to protect him from such unjust suspicion.

- I ask to be forgiven, she began, but do not think my son is a bad man at heart. I know him better than anyone. Not to bore me inhuman and from him I cry myself tribunal. I would not have done it if he would have called. And you'll see why ...

A silence filled with eager attention settled down in the hall. Overwhelmed engineer eyes dropped down when his wife suddenly appeared, and she listened, amazed.

- I am a simple woman, continued the old lady though encouraged by the attention of the room. I worked long and hard to live and to grow on him. They were then hard times right after the Great Depression. I was alone all my life, I never had a man. And you see, again, why. The boy wore always nice to me: it was good, I listened, learned my ass off to make future; also had a good head, do not talk. Then, when it was bigger, worked, and made sense and he took care of me. When he married, I thought I could be of help in the home, children. I'm just used to work. It was not long, however, and saw that my daughter-in -law "tangling" more and more of me around the house, although they had a good house, spacious. As children ... not want to have ... One time I endured stings. He did not say anything. I saw that works, that sees its work. I knew him well and saw where I enjoyed working for him. I did not want to upset him with mine. Besides, in the presence of him my daughter-in-law wear otherwise. But he could just leave in the morning and evening. Sometimes he went through other cities. Stay at home with daughter-in-law, she does not work. When not doing various things in the kitchen, I would sit in my corner somewhere, to no upset at all. All day silent, hoping that things will go for the better. But did not go well! Do not say everything happened. Enough that, after a while, fights broke out between them. The reason I was. Eventually no longer feared me. For the wife, money was the most important thing for which she lived, ate the illusion that money gives control over her life and others. One day to my son she shouted: "Either me or your mother! Choose ".

At that moment daughter-in-law, under the hostile entire room, I had to go look.

- In short, continues old, I could not bear. My son loved and I had wanted to separate my account. But what could I do? I found somewhere a little house and I moved. But, I felt alone in the world loud now! Work could not: I am old. However, I have not given up. I was trying to assure basic needs doing various things on my neighbors, walked their dogs, but I stayed with children at a time aging and I got sick and I had to stay longer in bed. I went over to their house very rare. My son, what I say, so how can I help. But his wife kept strictly counting the money he was earning. Very soon broke out and fights. Then, thinking that doing a good boy guided me to address the court. Not to be his wife says, because if that will decide the law, he can not do otherwise ... Seeing how you look at it, I was sorry that I listened. Know that it is not a bad man at heart ... Can not tell you this, but I endured heart when I heard his wife screaming here those terrible things about me ...

Old hesitated. He wiped his tears and trembling hand as if remembering a thing distant stories on with an obvious sense of relief.

- And I want to tell you something ... something I have not said before, anyone .. Even my son, because I did not embitter him ... I, I think, about 18 years old, well I do not know. We were a bunch of kids from their parents. One day, I was in the forest near the town where I lived with my parents because I had to gather dry wood for the fire, I heard a whimper. At first I was scared and not knowing what I started to run. Then I explained. It was a whining child. He was only a few weeks. Some, not even a man. What was I to do? I took him gently in his arms. I also cried. I let him pile of wood and chest, I ran home. At the edge of the woods I stopped. I had fear. I put the baby down. He immediately began to cry louder than before. I broke into a run to not hear it. But I stopped soon; I watched his crying. I'm back. He looked at me with pleading some with little eyes so that I have not the heart to leave him there.

When I saw my father home, was stunned. I cried to go where the child know that's not right. My father was a hard man and unyielding. And seeing me as caregivers, entered the suspicion. He thought that it be mine and I hid the truth. Maybe drunk that day, we took the beating and my mother and me. Wed began to be my dear child and did not know what to do. Finally, I decided to go home with him. What will be, it is !, I thought ... I was not easy! Nowhere did not want to take me with him. Let him, I endured. But I was ashamed to tell someone that's not my child. Who would have thought it? When I finally found, some benevolent people who welcomed me, boy, I have been able, if I would have asked her to work just to earn my food and child and have a shelter. I raised myself. The show was not. Who was to look at a poor woman, with a child over? No one asked me to marry him. I had him, my sun. He grew sturdy, as you see it ...

Here, the old silent disconcerted. He could not speak. Tears started flowing down his cheek. Among sobs just added this:

- If this woman had so sorry after morsel that gives me my son, I declare that I want to get anything from him and withdraw my complaint ... is a silence in the room. People wiped his eyes furtively ...

This was the story. Son, overwhelmed by emotion, approached the old woman, hiding her face in her hands rough. His wife got up and left the room disconcerted. I do not know if left next to a man who would bring home a few hundred dollars less, but I know him, "foundling in the forest" will not be able to live apart from one who was a mother so hi there.

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THE HARD FRIDAY

I started one day could not have better. That very morning, very early, in the dark, hopping up in the kitchen, making me a latte and withdrawing me in my thoughts.

I became a mother at age 23 and I was very clear what to do: I had to be the big sister, my child's playmates. What could be so complicated? Half of my life I had been a child, I knew very well how things are. I could not be overcome by everything that would happen to me. But the ...

We announce a beautiful day of autumn finally a beautiful day like many others in this time of year, only this time we had some new boots and a dress all new and not wait to walk out. I was anxious to step on a thick carpet of leaves just fallen under the sole boot feel its softness and to enjoy the flavor of autumn floating in the air.

We, therefore, every reason to wake up in a good mood and thinking with delight the day that was to follow. Even I started and I prepared coffee sitting on the corner of the washing machine in the bathroom. I arranged a little hair, I put a bit of makeup, so discrete day. May take a sip of coffee and change songs from the list on the phone. At 6:01 I was a ready bit, a bit of perfume and I could get out the door. When Danny woke up and my son aged three years. He opened his eyes and looked at me, as he does every morning.

Kiss him in passing on the forehead and run to open the kitchen window. Unbelievable! Everything seemed wet and punched me out a wave of cold air. Head out the window to make sure. Raining and it was cold. It was too cold and too wet for my dress for my boots.

Well, that's it! I'll change clothes! You're not going to ruin my enthusiasm with which all this rain I woke up, I thought to myself.

I started to think about other options dress code when I heard Danny, with a voice like a bear, I'm crying

- Mom! Come on, please!

The child had removed just those words. He told me, whispered that it hurts neck.

- Let me make you some tea, 'I said.

I made tea in 3-4 minutes, but Danny was sleeping deeply when I went to take him. I changed the dress and boots. I jumped into some jeans and I started looking for baby clothes.

While I was concerned about the baby's clothes tenders I heard a gurgling noise from the bathroom. I ran into a soul, even though I ran nothing. I witnessed a water and light show. Light installation went as the Christmas tree, and it was like drops of water gushing from the broken pipe to transform into small balls of light that danced playfully through the whole bathroom.

I stopped all water, bathroom and kitchen, and I threw all sorts of random stuff away. The mop was overcome by what was there. We raised more or less water with a towel and opened the bathroom window. Then I found out torrential rains. But torrential, man! Damn!

Relax, breath, it's not the end of the world. The important thing is that we are better! I thought silently.

That's what I always say, the bad days. I think, often, forget the essentials and leave me overwhelmed with all sorts of little things. I often feel like I'm taking it to the chase, the desire to make them all and go, though, the speed of a carousel does not see anything around. And then I stop and say to me are, in fact, the things that really matter. A kind of "us to be healthy!"

Sun to some installers, I am looking umbrella, I'm looking for baby clothes for rain and when I go to wake him, I find wet weakling, like bath water springing up in bed. Danny had a fever and could not get up from the bed. In the eyes a headache and neck and barely able to draw a few sounds.

To hell with it!

I changed clothes, I gave something for fever and I announced that we go to the doctor. Meanwhile, appeared installers. I invited into the house, showed them "work" and left. I announced as I can come back soon.

How, in any rainy day paralyzed city traffic, we did a century hospital. He complained that he does not feel well, I still had a little and cry because he does not feel well because I could not fly because it was raining because installers rang me and I put all sorts of questions beyond me ...

We arrived at the doctor, I went, I came home, I saw the disaster in the house, nothing was solved, the child was lying in bed, I had to go to the pharmacy, to make a creamy soup, talking to installers to two day, and a lot of other issues that do not bear any delay and that made what was left of the day, be very crowded.

And then I saw my new boots all day I remembered that awful. And, before you go out the door, I started to cry. And I put the chair and cried. And I cried. And I cried. I cried until I had tears. I cried, and raised his fists and realize that nothing, but nothing in this world, it's better than crying. And I cried until I realized that everything is resolved, it's not the end of the world, it's good that we are still good. Or at least to be.

But I cried ... And now, after a few days, we're good.

Lastly would be a great day, even if it's only now I learned Friday and not Wednesday as I thought.

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Time passes

I was talking recently with a friend about what we do, girls, and began to enumerate them, feeling sorry for me, my last weeks - months? years?, those in which my son was sick and had a fever, so I ran all night in the ER and from there they sent me home with an ironic grin telling me that, yes, it's a virus that fuss as more cool kids.

And do fever, so the story went, 3, 4 in the morning, in the coming days. 7 Meanwhile, fresh, PR smile, I had to be at work, then the courses Dutch child was at home, not eating and not feeling well, then my husband became ill and had lain, a few days.

In fact, after classes I have on the Dutch master - from 6-10 pm and I remembered that I have two projects to be finished and to teach them this week, that I wrote a long time ago and that neglect my required readings, I look like hell and there I stopped combing a week, these shampoos luck and evil substances you stuck in a picture publicly acceptable.

Then my jaw was swollen and I went to the dentist and he told me, with a superior air, they are oh my ass and it is a serious business and that you neglect, lady, 35 years of your e inadmissible also have problems, then I ran there again in courses where they told me that I must justify absences and there children call home, not have to sit their ass all the time after that, the , longer sick children, then I went home and I had a fight with my husband.

At home, the child told me it was my turn to get up with him this morning, and did not understand why not do that, lately, after I spent so much to him and he saw on television a pretty blonde dancing and wants to change me, like a mother smiling and shaped, like that, to dance with him at home all the time. After that I thought I had to do the food, it would not hurt to wash some laundry in May, that I have no idea what lies in the freezer and that and gathered dust. On my treasure belly ached, but he never complained ears or head.

In college, I met with some colleagues who asked me if I was sick and told me that I have dark circles, I look pretty crappy and that should take some pills or something.

The evening had to come to a party - be glamorous, I said, I had jaw all swollen, sore and hurt a little louder than the chest, the party relaxed world, people with normal jobs, relatively balanced daily rhythm, good humor includes both. We had 16 inches heels and knees were hurting me so I stayed over in convenient positions, I assumed the role of photographer.

Then I got home and looked at the clock, it was almost one. Tic-tac - one minute, two minutes, I went to the bathroom mirror, to feel sorry for me and when I looked there I saw a woman of 35 years, two months, three weeks, eight hours and two minutes. And I realized that no matter how much compassion I managed to collect for me the minute the needle goes forward, and three, and four. As time goes by as much calm, anger and helplessness over my daily shit everywhere, silk stockings and heels over 16 cm and over and over simulations and glamor over the hours lost in traffic. That why I did not expect anyone any confirmation of my inner beauty or power, from anyone, besides me, fuck wife dressed compassion and sensitivity and that time did not turn anyone absolutely anyone back that every day is fundamentally important and should not live in the past, because if you slipped into this dumb mistake, their crap, wine, bury you, you sing and give some boiled wheat, alms, for your soul, then, bye, see you after seven years, or not, it is no longer practical.

Then I looked again in the mirror and I saw it. She was kidding, of feeling, I would say, with his right knee, makeup flawless, one of that, the pops, you know, when you see her on the street, but that still would not put up with you, you are dependent and weak and she's beautiful and has a free and exceptional family and when stepping on earth knows he can see a handbreadth above, over umbrellas. Show that picture to say it's made by a crazy guy who wants the same moment to kiss you all over, from head to heel, and the camera instantly. What picture hard, told me the next day, my friend, who you did it, frisky hopelessly in love with a guy?

I did, I single, beautiful and proud of me, I was that guy, I was so dear to me, I love me die, I got it last night at 35, two months, three weeks, eight hours and two minutes, the first time in my life when I saw in the mirror.

Tic-tac, girls! Time passes and nobody, absolutely nobody, do not back out of the way.

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