Lost twins

They were repelled and fascinated by each other. They could not let go of the twinship

  

At decades away, the men noticed that dress the same, going the same way, have the same temperament and tics, both love butter and spicy food and to use the toilet flush before, reports Los Angeles Times.

"They are a perfect example of how the twins, although they have increased in completely different environments, are very similar," said Nancy Segal, professor of psychology at Cal State Fullerton, who has studied brothers in a research from the University of Minnesota.

Oskar went to Germany with his Catholic mother, Elizabeth, and grew up as the Nazis rose to power. Like his fellow students, he greeted the school principal with “Heil, Hitler,” and was warned by his grandmother to never let on that his father, Joseph, was Jewish. As an act of survival, Oskar joined the Hitler Youth

movement.

Years later, he confessed that he had dreamed that he shot down his twin in an aerial dogfight. Jack had a similar nightmare about killing Oskar with a bayonet.

For Jack, however, the war was a distant threat, experienced mainly through newsreels he saw growing up in Trinidad with their father. His childhood was difficult in other ways.

“As a white, red-headed boy in a predominantly black and Indian culture, he stood out a lot and was beat up a lot,” said his son, Kenneth. “He was constantly having to prove himself.” Luckily, he was highly competitive and excelled athletically.

However, despite the differences so blatant when they met the first time in 21 years, they found that the same kind of wore glasses and wore the same jacket (one bought in Israel, and the other in Germany). In 1954, before heading to the United States where his father had settled, he decided to stop in Germany to look up his brother. They were 21 when they met for the first time as adults.

The meeting was a bit embarrassing because of language barriers. "Why do you wear the same clothes Oskar like me ?, I asked, and he answered" Why you wear the same clothes as me? " told Yufe to BBC

25 years have passed and have not seen. In 1979 Yufe saw an article about "Jim twins," a pair of twins who was separated at birth, each baby was baptized by Jim each foster family. Like Yufe and his brother, Oskar, Jim Springer and Jim Lewis met when they were adults and were amazed to find similarities between them. They both had jobs like police and both had been married and divorced two women who had the same first name.

Jim brothers were the first university study subjects Minnesota. Yufe was intrigued by trial and Oskar asked him to attend. Thus, Yufe and Oskar became the seventh pair of twins participating in the study.

Thomas J. Bouchard, the psychologist who led the study, noted that the brothers spoke and shared the same habits as quite odd. "I thought only of myself I won't play with elastic or bobby pins when excited, but Oskar was the same," said Yufe.

Of 137 pairs of separated twins in the two-decade University of Minnesota study, 56 were fraternal and 81 were identical. Yufe and his brother, Oskar Stohr, stood out because of their dramatically dissimilar backgrounds.

"They had a special relationship, one of love and hate. They felt revulsion, but also an attraction to each other," said Nancy Segal, who wrote in 2005 a book about the twins.

Oskar Stohr, who worked in the mine for many years, died of lung cancer in 1997. Yufe Jack died on November 11, 2015, at the age of 82 in San Diego, was killed by stomach cancer.

When Nancy Segal asked him, Yufe Jack, if he loved his brother, she replied that "do not even know if we liked." They spent a month together during the study.

The so-called invisible bond between twins, it seems that does not always work. There pairs of twins who show "Shark syndrome" in the sense that it is not willing to share much with his brother.

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Pawned life

Frank Gehry, one of the most renowned contemporary architects, recently said in a press conference that "98 percent of modern buildings around the world are devoid of any respect for humanity."

He referred, in particular, those buildings of glass studded overnight if the world's major cities. In recent years, hundreds have sprung also suffocates us gaze giant cages, defying any trace of common sense or aesthetic criterion. There, behind these huge windows have their usual mysterious abode of those communities we call corporations. There bustle from morning until late evening thousands of people, docile and disciplined like robots. We see them sometimes on the street in expensive cars or a fast-food restaurant, always dapper, dressed in brand watches bright, constantly gesturing with hands-free to your ear. Always seem busy, tormented by thoughts though vital, confident, jovial, proud of their concerns. They give the feeling that they know everything, they answer to any question, that they master the universe. They are Guildsmen today those people align perfectly, like a conveyor belt, the mixer organizations as cold and impenetrable as the buildings where they spend their working time. And yet, beyond the smiling faces of these people seemingly always happy, hiding, often, unsuspected drama. Lives pledged, broken families, joys shattered, stress infernal, exhaustion, insomnia, panic attacks, depression deadly. However because of demands and pressures High-handed from this system, but also a desire reckless employees to reach as if in a short time, welfare supreme, absolute happiness. For some of them, unfortunately, enrolling in such a system was a sad experience, as proved the case that I selected from a long list as the novel "How to understand women".

In the corporate world speaks that such tragedies are happening more often, but the largest companies have set some draconian rules, whereby those who dare to disclose in the media such information can be Its ordeal am daily and shattered dreams. It agreed to tell me about the life he leads and which is not long ago her life because a woman is. About how much was alienated from everything that is alive and well and about her soul atrophied? She agreed to tell me all this, with one condition: not to reveal her identity. No last name or company name. The whole nightmare that she lived, her biggest fear is that could remain without a job. Because everything car, house, furniture and other essential accessories, is pledged to a bank.

dismissed without appeal and set, even to pay certain damage the company. And yet, despite these rules, I was able to talk to an employee of a big corporation.

"I know people are concerned that some strange beings. In fact that being? Rather like robots. And probably right to see it. I, for example, does not even remember the smell of grass or as is when you love. And do not even have time to feel that I miss all that. Why? Because I went into a kind of carousel infernal that it spins so fast, I do not have how to I find nothing around me. And no jumping, to me over there I have courage. I'm afraid I fall. I regret with all my heart up that I made 14 years ago. It is clear now that's me in real life somewhere else. Unfortunately, it's too late to keep looking ... " Sophia sits in front of me, sitting on a leather chair in her living giant. She hardly found time to visit it. For nearly seven years, she holds the position of PR manager in a telecommunications company and the deadline is tomorrow's working on a project for about two weeks. Now, however, enjoy the respite that sincerity. It's a long time since she had another conversation so open. After so many years had to play every day the same role of women tough, severe able to rein in communication with subordinates, especially with those chiefs men full of whims and airs, she did not think it would ever be someone able to tell her personal troubles. Is sitting lightly on the leather chair and answer me with a bitter smile to any question. She recently turned 45 years old. Keep still good, is always groomed, packed dressing has only clothing brands, use expensive cosmetics, taken only from Paris. But none of them sophisticated makeup can hide not wrinkles under the eyes and always look tired. It shows me some photos of student and I saw  there a beautiful girl, looking confident and radiant face, a smile full of hope and happiness. None of this is seeing her face now. It looks like a squeezed lemon trying to play your original form, so now it's just hollow. She looked sad and seemed surprised at these pictures, as it would no longer recognize it look bright there. "As the years have passed! I can not believe, though are pictures from another life."

Here in this huge living room, it looks like the home of a millionaire. On the opposite wall hangs a huge plasma TV, as a movie screen, equipped with all the programs and the world's most expensive home cinema system, which do not open but almost never. Opposite, you conspicuous elegant fireplace, glass, and stone, which Sophia says it's a very expensive and exclusive model, produced by a famous artist from France. "When you see a fireplace like that, you immediately think of those pictures from movies, nights that romantic winter spent in the arms of the boyfriend with a glass of wine in front. To me, it was not to be. Apart from that show nice and well warms my living room, I have not found any other use or meaning. " On another wall, rises up to the ceiling mahogany library, filled with books collection, Sophia hopes that they will someday read. Beyond the huge window in front of us, sees her yard with green grass impeccably cut in the middle of an alley with granite tiles, leading to the gate. The left side of the court, in a circular enclosure of multicolored planks, sit strung a few toys, a swing hanging from a tree branch and a red plastic slide. Later, near the fence, seen brick wall of the garage where the hosts a silver Toyota RAV4 Novo, brand-new. This house is in a residential area in the north of the city and was purchased in 2012. The ground floor has a living room with bar and kitchen, upstairs three large bedrooms and a work room, the woman often spends her nights trying to finish the tasks of the office. Everything is here, including car and house, with all its amenities, it has been bought with loans from banks and obtained an advance from the sale of an apartment. From her salary of nearly 140,000 dollars, more than half goes to the rates at banks, leading them to limit the rest of home maintenance, daily life and all sorts of taxes. "Do you understand now why can not just jump carousel that?" I say with some fear in her eyes. "My life is definitely pawned. That's the price you pay for living this so-called happy."

It all started with an interview at that time a little terrified. It was a nasty day of autumn, a day that I will never forget it. By then, after graduation, she had all sorts of jobs, the latter being a travel agent. Not earn much, but had a clean life and knew how to enjoy the simple things. She read a lot, even going to the theater once a week, did not escape any movie, listen to good music, have a boyfriend, she was always surrounded by I lived with my boyfriend and I started to kinda stuck in financial terms. He was the cameraman in a television not win very much. I could hardly cover current. Nor is the issue of holidays or other distractions. So I seriously put to work, to look for a job. And after several failed attempts, I got a call from a former colleague from the agency. She said that a large telecommunications company was about to open a branch in the city. And they need people that are recruiting. I went quickly there, I left a CV, and two days later I was invited to interview. I remember it was raining infernal and my only concern was not my shoes dirty. The interview was something terrible. I had the feeling that they are at a session of psychotherapy. I have been asked, among other things, how many children I have, if I have a boyfriend when I'm with him, like me I lived childhood, if I have a peaceful sleep, when dreaming sleep and other weird things that, frankly, I was scared. I walked away confused, do not even want to think about such a job. Yet, after another few days, when they called me again and told me that I was accepted, especially after they told me what position and what salary they give me, I accepted without flinching ".

friends, enjoy plenty of holidays, climb mountains, swim, play tennis. They were the most beautiful years, she felt free and fulfilled. She managed to buy an apartment, then a car second hand, planned to marry the one she loved for nearly five years, will desperate to have a baby and enjoy on the same things simple clean. Unfortunately, however, the travel agency where she worked went bankrupt, and it ruined her little plan. "

Since then, her life has changed. Easy, easy, and the lure of money a successful career and the twisted minds and changed landmarks and has altered tastes and overthrew all models to date. Rock music, she listened once so happy, with time become just "annoying noise" being replaced by Chill Out or Café del Mar and other delicacies from the current "meditation music". All models of its cultural up then there were just poor losers who chose to write and meditation philosophical just a lazy congenital, her only model becoming career women that "business woman" strong and independent encountered in movies dozen. Gradually adjusted their style and dress, gestures, language, beginning to speak more frequently, that stupid corporate language. Then, beginning to despise all those simple things that life flashed before. Instead of ordinary walks through a park, prefer a local house, where to debate, of course, just about money or her problems at the office. Instead of a weekend in the mountains, prefer a short shopping in Paris or Milan. Her old friends bored her, her life partner, one that once planned to marry, a rattle with his perseverance to bring it back down to earth. "Nothing was before. And that's because I was someone else. Who says corporate environment means brainwashing is absolutely right. If you are more infirm or very ambitious to get higher, you are lost. It seems that how I was. The relationship with my boyfriend I was in the lead. I would come home at night, late, and if you do not take some work from the office, I fell asleep on the sofa. I did not have common subjects, no longer had the same tastes and passions. All those things that before I liked him now annoy me terribly. And yet I did not want to split up, I was like afraid of that. I had but one head that I kept making eyes at. I help projects, I covered before other heads, I went with him to break "lunch". He was 45 years old as I am now. This guy, always in control, always dapper and gallant, a manager genuine. He had a family,  a beautiful wife, and a baby ten years. I do not really know why, but his presence fascinated me. It was for me a model of successful man. He had only one blemish: he was an incurable womanizer. But in my mind since then, even that was quality. I love it. Or, well, I thought so. In fact, it was just a chimera, a dull fascination to an imagined model." Sophia least stops, looks at me as if slightly embarrassed, and then tells a confessional tone:" I was his mistress for almost a year. And I was ashamed at all. In a corporation with many team-building and spent many hours overtime, these combinations are common. It is even encouraged this habit. That way, the desire to go home may decline to extinction. And a divorce, that disintegration of a family, bring big benefits to the company. An employee alone has no choice but to devote his life's job. now, because that way my boss had a mutual complicity. Yet, after almost a year, my boyfriend left me. I was alone and I was scared for the first time. Because of this, I tried to throw harder each other's arms, but my gesture angered him so bad, that at that moment he dumped me forever. I had back then already 35 years old and gave me a feeling that creeps if I stay single life. Only then I began to wake up to reality. Unfortunately, it was too late."

That's what happened with me. My friend suspected something, but I never admitted anything. I did not want to leave me just

Her hunch was correct: that day remained a single woman. It's only antidote was working to the satisfaction full of heads which have promoted a year later to the position of PR Manager. Work at a hellish pace, with a desperately sick day by day until late at night, as he was leaving office always the same fear to return back to its oppressive loneliness. Later it was thought that perhaps you should still change some of the decors. She bought this house and arranged it exactly the way she wanted, and chose furniture from magazines, filled the walls with expensive paintings, and took a beautiful and smart dog. Then it decided to adoption a child. "Every woman has some conditioning almost biological. She wants love, she wants a child, a family, like to cook from time to time, she wants to show her love. I never had indulgence that and I did not have much time wait. I thought to adoption a child. That came into my life five years ago, a little girl named Annie. For a time, the goal who tortured me was filled, and this life of mine received and a sense".

Sophia nevertheless continued to work the same crazy pace. She had no choice, dedication heads were used to them and increasingly demanding. The girl remained in the daily care of a nanny who was employed 12 hours a day. Sophia failed to see only in the evenings later when she slept. Because agitation and stress, was morning, made a stroke. Fortunately, no seriously. Doctors then recommended to get rid of stress, computer, pressure at work, out in nature as much as possible, eat healthily and sleep. Otherwise, things may get worse ugly. "Do you realize what that means? Let's keep the baby alone in the world, in a house that I would snatch a bank the day? Or to get a vegetable in a cart and witness how the finally my own and my child drama? " Sophia has no choice. All the company knows about its vascular accident, but nobody cares about that. I gave then a few days off over her medical leave and not much more. Today it works as much with the same pressure on the head with the same stress and the same nights of insomnia. Annie sees as a gift, and when they found still time for it, quickly losing its patience and sometimes even out of their senses and screamed at her. "I feel like a vise that I gather from all sides. Even on holiday, I can not feel liberated. I kept hoping these years that I will find eventually a life partner. Be with me and Annie, I feel defended, safe. When you meet such a man? In company are all like robots, each just for him, everyone lies in wait to foul another. By the way, you know that they invented a matrimonial agency for corporate? It's called "Umbrella for Two". Who could stay with me with so many problems? Who indulge me? Sometimes I look in the mirror and if I can not see anything feminine. In vain do I so makeup, nothing I arrange always hair, nothing wear dress shoes. After so many years managed a corporation, any woman becomes a man in a skirt. So I took my mind off a relationship. In fact, I took my thought everything. My only joy and fulfillment remained Annie. And all that waiting is the day that I could spend all my time with her. I mean all day release from this nightmare. "

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WHY ME?

Kamilah Brock is a young black woman aged 32 years who works at a bank in New York. It was one day driving her own BMW and was stopped at a traffic light at an intersection in Harlem career. Immediately after passing the intersection, police stopped her and asked her why she did not keep both hands on the wheel while stationed at traffic lights. The woman said she felt the need to move a little to the music generated from the car cassette player. The vehicle is switched off and she felt that speed traffic light timer to allow sufficient time show to look in the glove compartment sunglasses. All these activities were finished collateral 3-4 seconds before the allotted time for a red light. When the color of the traffic light turns green machine was set in motion.

However, police asked him to drop the car was taken to the police station and was eventually released after several hours without any charges against him formulate. Police told the woman that he can I felt from the moment I said I have a BMW, I was regarded as a liar" Brock told. "They handcuffed and told me that I go to my car, but I was transported in an ambulance to the hospital".
recover car, a BMW 325CL manufactured in 2003, the next day. When introduced to take the car, police colleagues did not believe that she is the rightful owner of the vehicle that believes it is hoodwinking. "

Her next destination, however, turned out to be the Psychiatric ward at Harlem Hospital, where she was revealed medical records forced to take lithium and injected with powerful sedatives.

"He held onto me and then the doctor stuck me in the arm and I was on a stretcher and I woke up taking my clothes off to them, specifically my underwear" Brock said. "Then I went back out again. When I woke up the next day, I felt like I was in a nightmare. I did not understand why that was happening to me".

She spent eight days in the hospital and institution staff tried to convince "to deny that BMW is hers, that is a banker and President Barack Obama is one of her followers on Twitter". But all these things are perfectly true.

"I was regarded as a liar," she recounted. According to the advocate Ms Brock, Michael Lamonsoff, the woman never suffered from mental problems. "If a white woman was trying to reclaim impounded by police BMW her, she Would have been made a victim?" he told the Huffington Post. "Would have been questioned she? Would she have been subject to sarcastic comments? Would be she was she who made to justify in order to ask for help? I do not think so. I do think played a part in this race. "

To make matters worse, Brock was sent a $ 13,000 medical bill after she was released.

Brock has filed a suit against the City of New York and the NYC Health and Hospitals Corporation (HHC) seeking unspecified damages. Claims that she constitutional rights under the fourth and 14th Amendments were violated, and that she suffered "unwarranted intrusion of unwanted and her integrity, loss of liberty [and] mental anguish."

Police claim Brock that was "acting irrational, she spoke incoherently and inconsistently, and she ran into the middle of traffic on Eighth Ave." according to new filings by the city.

According to Brock's lawyer, Michael Lamonsoff race played a big part in the case.

That Kamilah says she believes this "nightmare" would not have happened if she were not African-American. She has filed a lawsuit against the city, contending that constitutional rights she were violated. 

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DOLPHIN RESCUE

We've all heard over the years various reports of true events that dolphins have saved the life of either the one or more peers of ours, or of whales are about to fail, or of puppies, or other endangered creatures imminent.

Even if the stories about dolphins that saved people's lives dates back to ancient times, biologists have not yet scientific evidence that altruistic behavior.

It is possible that these marine mammals are just curious when you come near a man in danger. Or maybe they really want to help him.

But the story told by Maddalena Bearzi, president of Ocean Conservation Society, seems to contradict this hypothesis.

Maddalena wrote in his book "Dolphin Confidential: Confessions of a Field Biologist" about an incident that was witnessed at a time when studying the behavior of dolphins, along with her team.

Suddenly, Maddalena says, while eating, one of the dolphins stopped and went in another direction. Soon, others followed him.

Amazed by this behavior, researchers followed them out of the boat and saw that the dolphins were stopped at a distance of 5 km, forming a circle around a black dot.

When they arrived at the scene they saw a young girl on the brink of drowning. Researchers were able to save in the last minute and took her to the hospital where the girl recovered.

Later, they learned that it had been a suicide attempt, the young having on her a note stating reasons.

If it had not been observed for dolphins and if these mammals had not come near her, thus alerting researchers girl would have drowned for sure. But it was observed dolphins from a distance of five kilometers, or they were alerted to turn the other creatures of the sea by signals that we humans can not perceive. The fact is that something caused them to suddenly cut all meals and go in the same direction, reaching finally to where the girl was in danger.

The incident occurred in waters off Los Angeles.

Researchers wonders such as dolphins reacted in their absence if he failed to save the girl alone.

There are other incidents in which witnesses spoke of altruism dolphins. Recently, the 12 divers who were lost in the Red Sea for 13 hours were helped by these mammals, which have kept the sharks away.

There are also stories about how dolphins have helped swimmers to reach the shore or guided whales were in danger of running aground.

Recently, however, an incident occurred which could be considered a reciprocal above the set.

A tourist enjoys what appeared to be a calm day at the beach in Arraial do Cabo in Brazil when he saw something quite unusual in the water. He immediately took his room and saw a large group of dolphins, which number around 30 were heading straight for shore! 

No one can say with certainty why dolphins have done what they did, but I am sure we are all so glad that it ended well.

Images shown are rare. Most times, when dolphins or whales go ashore, there is no one to rescue them.

Experts have not yet agreed on the cause of this strange behavior.

The most credible theory is that marine mammals are confused by the sounds produced by submarines and military ships when they use echolocation.

As these dolphins and soul destroyed people need a friend or a loving heart to understand, to help them and give them a new direction, a new hope, and desperation to leave their souls.

Environmental activists have argued for years that sonar - detection systems and submarine communication - used by ships on beaches causes wreck cetaceans because it interferes with their orientation and communication system. A recent international study confirmed that this technology is responsible for such a major incident - a failure of more than 100 dolphins in Madagascar.

In 2008, more than 100 specimens of dolphins Electra (Peponocephala electra) were stranded on a beach in Madagascar, and a recent study says that disorientation produced by high-frequency sounds used for mapping the seabed would have been the origin of this event.

Sounds of high-frequency sonar used by military vessels, transport, and research to communicate effectively prevents animals between them and affect their orientation can make cetaceans swim toward areas that otherwise would not adventure.

Volunteers from the Wildlife Conservation Society (WCS) and International Fund for Animal Welfare (IFAW) rescued some of the animals but for many others, it was too late to be saved.

It is the only way that man-made underwater noise affects marine cetaceans: Another study, conducted by Cascadia Research Collective soon by states that sonar can lead to death warships blue whales. These sonars emit sounds with frequencies between 1 and 10 kHz, which induce behavioral changes in whales. Among other things, changing feeding behavior of some whale species, which makes them "miss" very nutritious prey, the whales became malnourished and weakened and may even die of starvation, which decimates populations.

The findings are worrisome because sonar systems are very widely used in the navy and research vessels, especially for precisely mapping the undersea relief.

Nature protection organizations hope that these scientific evidence of man-made underwater noise impacts on cetaceans leading to review how this technology is used to reduce the risk posed to marine cetaceans.

Peruvian Ecologists have found no less than 615 dolphin carcasses along a portion of 144 kilometers from the beach. At the first estimate, experts consider as the cause of death of cetaceans powerful acoustic tests carried out by oil companies in the coastal waters of Peru.

"If we managed to count 615 corpses only dolphins on the beach, we are sure that a much larger number of dolphins have died in the ocean, and their bodies have not got to the shore. It is possible that the number of cetaceans killed to have reached some thousand copies, "says Hardy Jones, BlueVoice.org environmentalist group leader after the estimated situation on the beach, along with a researcher from the group ORCA Peru.

BlueVoice.org organization claims that "Initial tests prove the acoustic impact caused by sonic blasts used in the underwater exploration of oil deposits."

An expert from the ORCA Peru, veterinarian Carlos Yaipen Llanos, said that although no evidence has absolutely undeniable, he beliefs led to the propagation of acoustic tests of a "sonic explosions", a shock wave that caused internal bleeding dolphins, loss of balance and dizziness.

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MY BOY AND MY TIME

I became a mother at 23 and I was very clear what to do: I had to be the big sister, my child's playmates. What could be so complicated? Half of my existence had been a child, I knew very well how it works. There was no way to be overcome by all that was happening to me. But ...

I wake up early, sometimes very early every day. I kiss the child, Victor, sleep and get away from him. I make coffee and retire in "my room", which is the place of work and dining room, and playground and all, but that's not important, the important thing is that they only have the privilege to see the sunrise window sun every morning.

Nothing but nothing in this world compares to the east. This is my moment! Write or read while the sun rises, I drink coffee in a silence and savor seconds, and I make for wonderful day schedule below.

Since Victor came into the world, time and space were severely diminished. In the early years, I stayed just stunned. Could not find the place anywhere, I could not rest (although sleeping more), I could not coordinate, and anything I can not do it properly. Everything was upside down, and it bothered me terribly.

I lived it until the night I had no sleep. Then I got up at 4 and I started the day. When he woke up the baby I was all done things food, cleaning, shower, hair arranged. This morning I discovered. Now almost two years.

Since then, every day I wake up in the dark and do ballet house. I learned every piece of creaky floors and a bypass. I know, without light, where everything I need. Challenge each morning is to make no noise. I do all kinds of tricks in the kitchen. Lighting the stove with the match, because the button is not so quiet. Put two towels on the table before you sit down for a coffee cup. I use a plastic spoon to not reproduce the sound that destroyed my childhood mornings: spoon in the cup - my father had an obsession - coffee must be stirred well, that is energetic and noisy. And after I'm done with the kitchen, doing ballet with a coffee mug in hand and retire to the light aquarium near a window.

And this is my time. It's the day when no one calls me, nobody asks me anything, no one calls me, nothing is urgent. I feel, somehow, outside. I feel like a prisoner who has the opportunity to leave the prison gate and out daily, but never leave. It always returns back after feeling a little freedom.

So are you. I found when I secretly enjoy the freedom of being single and not blow it again. If you miss, are troubled all day ... In the morning, I would like to connect to power and I would load the rest of the day. And even so it is!

In the mornings, we spend alone time for all. The more I find that I do not have time to miss. Dorm bed when Victor was born. Asleep on me (skin to skin in four years, yes). I like to keep it up and I think a little fear when they no longer want that (because I feel it coming), but in the morning I get tired ribs and lungs. And then run away from him and are so as to make me miss. He wakes up alone and I cry whispered "Mommy" and I ran to him in the next second. I hold her, I rub his hand, kiss him on the forehead and chin and neck, rub her feet and back to stop not only when he wakes up for good. And so begins our day ... And this is good!

Excuse me, can you expect me to write about a new adventure with Victor, but that's when I start writing in the morning ... It's my time!

To be loved!

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THE AWAKENING

This story can be seen as a confession. Or as another confession. Days on end, weeks and months, even years linked to the 1997 - 2007: I ate food in excess, far beyond my needs.

1. The food we ingest nutritional quality was low, with many empty calories and the majority. I was a gourmet, a glutton, a greedy, "a pig".

2. I consumed alcohol and often in excess. I was an alcoholic in that classic hardcore youth.

3. Do not practice sport constantly, did not move often, not even I used to walk 30 minutes daily. The times were often not even climb stairs to 1st-floor block. Use the lift. I was an ordinary sedentary.

4. I worked from 9 to 10 and about 14 to 16 hours minimum per day. I worked and Saturdays and many Sundays. I worked in Christian holidays. Yes, I did for years in a row. In most of his own initiative and without recognizing it. I was a fucking workaholic.

5. Do not read much, just junk sites, online news, and I forget that night television hoax, almost daily. I was an asshole.

6. buy all the crap earth. I bought clothes, objects, apartments, cars change them within a year, fashionable

furnishings, furniture, electronics, etc ... I have been a dozen consumerist - ordinary.

7. I would go to the city often. Spend lots of restaurants, terraces, clubs and bars. I meet anyone I suggested, rarely sitting at home on the weekend. Dade course almost any "ieşeli". I was a gregarious petty.

8. I was a rushed, a rushed, an impatient, a staunch proponent of "now! here! "immediately, instantly, immediately! All in!

In fact 8 + 1. There would be an excess work done in those years, but maybe I better stop here now. And I write separately only about that soon.

My Transformation from gourmet greedy, alcoholic classically ordinary sedentary, workaholic fucking, asshole, consumerist and a gregarious paltry dozen since the minimalist today, although still working, required time, many years, and, especially, more patience. Perhaps patience was miracle ingredient and the miracle that occurred! What made the difference at a time.

Food, alcohol, physical inactivity, the workalcoholism, consumerism, and gregariousness creates some terrible addictions. Let's give them is an act of courage and strength of character. Not easy at all. And then triggers a series of fierce fighting, heavy fantastically frightening. You really need help, support and above all patience.

Just one example: the dozens of pounds of fat accumulated in over 10 years of indolence not disappear like magic. No, you can not wipe with a sponge magic instantly, no you can not tell success as cats: GO! Do not go so easy pounds. It takes patience and a lot of work. 

Examples may continue. But the essence was said. What I want to convey is that the degradation of a man is not done overnight. And neither by luck instantly. It is the result of adding constant long-term healthy habits and wrong attitudes.

Also, the reverse way, the positive, there is clapping their hands. You have a lot of work, dedication and, most importantly, patience.

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UNLUCKY GUY

There was once a man really unhappy. All it went bad. Misfortune to brace against. Hut roof is collapsing, his garden was a jungle, had no friends, no wife. After becoming proud of his misfortune. He said everyone wanted to hear: "I am the most miserable man in the world!"

He began to wonder why God had so unlucky. Decided to find him and ask him.

Once he walked a year and a day in the woods, he came upon a clearing with a cave. Enter the cave; and when his eyes adjusted to the darkness, sees a wolf in a corner. It was in a sorry state. He was so weak that he could count his ribs and fur was dirty and torn. Surprising, but could not speak. Wolf asked:

- Who are you and where are you going?

The man replied:

- I am the most unfortunate man in the world and seek God, to ask why I'm so unlucky.

- When you meet him, you can ask him why they are so poorly?

- Come with me and ask yourself, 'said the man.

- I doubt I'd be capable of that. I feel too weak to travel. Ask for me.

The man nodded, and resumed his way.

May went another year and a day, then stopped to rest in the woods. A leaf fell on his crown, and he looked up. He saw a tree embittered, small and frail. Tree said:

- Who are you and where are you going?

The man replied:

- I am the most unfortunate man in the world and seek God, to ask why I'm so unlucky.

- When you meet him you can ask him why they are so why can not make me grow strong branches and a trunk thicker?

- Come with me and ask him yourself. replied the man.

- I can talk, but I can not move, see I'm trapped in the roots. Ask for me.

The man nodded, and resumed his way.

Another year and another day passed. Reached in a beautiful valley, green and there he came upon a small white house. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen sitting under a cherry tree near the door. She asked:

- Who are you and where are you going?

The man replied: "I am the most unfortunate man in the world and seek God, to ask why I'm so unlucky." She invites him in, we prepare a delicious meal, we hear the story and he said, "When will you see, you can ask him why they are single? "He was in agreement.

After a year and a day reached the end of the world, you find God.

- Who are you and where are you going ?, asked God.

The man replied:

- I am the most unfortunate man in the world and come to ask you why I'm so unlucky.

God listened patiently while the man still reeling long story that goes wrong in his life. When finished, God said:

- You're just unlucky, you're also wrong.

It was not the answer that the man was waiting for him, so asked for explanations.

- I created what I could. I offered endless possibilities and opportunities, I surrounded by beauty, the people that I know of places to explore and the discoveries that you make. You have to come back and stop to say you're the unlucky man in the world. Go to look for better luck where they are. Move!

Man silenced by these words turned away thoughtfully. God recalled.

- Do you have questions to ask me by others, is not it?

God made man gave him answers questions and then told him to leave.

The man came to the house with a beautiful woman in the green valley. She calls again, eager to find answers. The man told him:

- God told me that not only unfortunate but also stupid.

Then he said that God had said that it was only because he lived in an isolated place. He said:

- Tell them to open their eyes and ask her to marry the first man who will pass and they will live happily life.

She replied:

- You're the first person who has passed. Would take me in marriage?

The man said:

- No. I have to go because God told me to go find my fortune where it is.

And left leaving the beautiful woman.

When he reached the tree destroyed after informing him that God said it and ill not only unfortunate, he said:

- God gave me the answer for you. You can not grow healthy, because when you were a Berries, thieves treasure buried here under you. Lada block you and prevent you grow roots. If you find someone to dig up treasure and then you can increase the normal.

Tree said:

- Is a shovel, there by that tree. It is there since I can remember. You can pick and pull that trunk!

The man replied:

- No. I have to go because God told me to go find my fortune where it is found.

And left.

Finally, he reached the cave wolf.

- You ask? said the wolf.

- Yes. It seems that not only unfortunate but, in addition, are stupid.

The wolf raised his head and said:

- And to me what he said?

The man replied:

- The only reason is that you are hungry you are weak. He said the first man must eat badly that you'll encounter.

... And so the wolf ate him.

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